I can understand the seduction in the reasoning โ€“ telling disempowered, demoralized people that they just need to do these few things feels a lot like helping! And for the audience it might even be a relief to find something like agency, to have a direction to move and a sense that somebody hears you. But itโ€™s not real help and itโ€™s not real agency and individual action wonโ€™t change systemic problems. Excusing failures of power this way is a kind of participatory gaslighting.

โ€” Mike Hoye, Thrashing, blarg, 2025